Work & Family – A Quick Update

Work

As for my work, our company unfortunately had layoffs in September 2011 and at the end of January…my department was hit both times. The first time back in September when I was still on maternity leave, my coworker & boss called to tell me that one of our production coordinators was let go (I’ve mentioned him before, he was the one that offered to sell me his son’s crib/stroller). This was not good news to hear, sad for my coworker and concerned for my job as well since I also found out that two other work acquaintances – one which I worked closely with on one title was let go but that was because our company decided to close one of our publications and the other acquaintance I didn’t work with but we’ve come to know each other because we were both pregnant and due about the same time, even though she took maternity leave a month earlier than I did.  Both these ladies that were let go were both new mothers and just recently returned from maternity leave (see my concern for myself). I figure the company is thinking if my department managed without me for a couple months already, that maybe they didn’t need me but luckily I am still safe and still have my job. Upon my return to work in October, I found out that one of the ladies was actually hired back but only on a contract basis so whenever we see each other, we talk about our babies since they were only born a day apart.

Our most recent layoff in our department at the end of January was also one of our production coordinators, Dan (amongst others in other departments). This was especially tough because he is a good guy, he was super nice and helpful. He was the guy I would ask to help me carry all my package deliveries to the car :) but he was a great coworker/friend so it was very sad to see him leave. But the good news is he has found another position and is happy so I’m happy for him and we still keep in touch.

Here’s a picture of Dan with Noah during one of our dinner get togethers:

Looking cute while trying to reach for Dan’s Coke

About the same time, our company also sold our Music group, which were mainly all the titles that I handled (more concern for my position). I forgot to mention that the magazine my company decided to not publish anymore was also handled by me. So now what?? Well a lot of shuffling around of work. I’ve been giving most of the gaming titles and have taken on the production coordinator position in addition to my current one. I’m still learning the process but it’s good to learn something new and add to my skills…one being a Mac which I am still getting used to!

Oh and lastly our office takes up two floors but we’ve been told that we will be only occupying one floor very soon.  Our department which WAS on the 4th floor when I left for maternity leave moved to the 3rd floor after I returned (which I knew about since I came in to pack up my personal stuff since I felt bad that my coworkers would have to do it) so now we’ll have to move back up to the 4th floor by the end of May. Going to get really cozy!

Family

Can’t believe Noah’s almost 11 months old! At his 9 month check up, his stats were:

  • Weight: 19 lbs, 6 oz (27th percentile)
  • Height: 29 in (71st percentile)
  • Head: 45 cm (38th percentile)

We won’t go back to see the pediatrician until he’s a year old but she told us to stop by if we want to get an update on his stats.

So what’s new…& somewhat old by now

  • 7 teeth – 4 on top and 3 on the bottom
  • Crawling at lightning speed…and for some reason loves to hold things in his hand while crawling.  If he “left” it behind during his crawling, he’d turn around and get it and then start the process all over again
  • Starting to stand on his own and take a few steps but still prefers crawling
  • Says “ma-ma” and “da-da” all the time, although we’re not 100% sure if he knows it’s Jon and I
  • Also says “mum-mum” but not sure if he really mean “food” and what sounds like “niy-niy” which is milk in Chinese but not sure too if that’s what he’s saying/asking for
  • Hold his own bottle and can put his pacifier back into his mouth
  • Drinking from a sippy cup, usually just a little bit of water after meals
  • Loves bath time now – loves to splash the water with his hands. Cries when we take him out.  Likes to “splash” in Kona’s water bowl.
  • Has discovered that sweet food, like fruits tastes so much better than vegetables…so we need to mix his vegetables with some fruit for him to eat it. We’ve been lucky that Noah has done well with almost everything he’s eaten with no real side effects.
  • Clapping – he can clap on his own and when you say “clap-clap-clap”
  • Shaking his head when you say “no-no-no”
  • Gives a kiss with his mouth when you say “kiss-kiss”
  • Discovered doors – loves to close the door or swing it back & forth between his hands (pretty coordinated!)

Kona is almost 2. Even though Noah loves her, Kona doesn’t share the same feelings. LOL. But she is not mean to Noah at all; she tries to lick him all the time. Now that Noah is crawling and making all sorts of noises, she’s probably not sure what to make of him so sometimes she just runs away to another room or to her crate.

When we got back from North Carolina during the Christmas holiday, I felt so bad for leaving Kona that I now allow her to sleep on our bed (and yes, Jon is not too happy I let that happen). I do wish I didn’t start because she likes to sleep right up against you and if you try to move over a little, she does the same and even though she’s like 15 lbs, she is dead weight once she’s a sleep so most nights I find myself near the edge of the bed. Guess that’s what I get. She was supposed to sleep at the end of the bed since my feet don’t reach that far! However lately during the middle of the night she would jump off the bed and sleep in her crate and then around early morning she would come out from the crate and jump back up on the bed.

Kona all cuddled up in our bed

Most weekends we try to take Kona out – when it’s good weather, we take her to Fort Funston and usually meet up with my friend, Janet who takes her dog Jasmine there. Kona and Jasmine get along great! Noah has a great time too, he loves seeing all the dogs and looking up at the trees…also something about feeling the wind blowing makes him smile and laugh. Other times we’ll take Kona to our local dog park.

Here’a few pictures of Kona running around in her favorite spot at Fort Funston:

Loves to run around & around in this one path

Does leaps too!

Last but not least, Jon and I. We’re about the same. I think we’re getting more sleep…it really varies but it’s nice to relax a bit on the days we take Noah to my parent’s place. We usually drop him off Sunday night and pick him back up on Tuesday.

Lately we’ve been alternating between them coming over to our place & us dropping him off over there. I spend a lot of my time trying to schedule what food to make for Noah and what new food for him to try. I use my Google calendar to plan out food a few weeks in advance so I know what I need to buy. The process I use is to have Noah try something new every 3 or 4 days to make sure he doesn’t have an allergic reaction. So I try to feed him a new vegetable, then a fruit, a meat, a dairy product (which I think he’s done with since I’ve let him have cheese and yogurt already) and a grain, then I start all over again. I’ve also had him try some spices too – so far – cinnamon, ginger, pepper & garlic powder.

Okay back to Jon and me. Hmm…I’m actually thinking of what to say, haha! Our life is pretty much Noah and Kona. We did have a movie date night not too long ago, yet feels so long ago. We went to watch The Hunger Games. Jon has read the books and I just barely started but the movie was great and we had a good time. Probably need to make another movie night soon to see The Avengers.

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More pictures…

March 2012

Enjoying weekends at Fort Funston

Noah turns 9 months

Kona looking “high” …love this pic!

Getting into everything…and getting caught!

April 2012

Noah turns 10 months / Meets the “Spring” Bunny

Weeeee! 1st time in a swing

Doesn’t like being in the playpen

Practicing the pincer grasp with Cheerios

Noah’s red wagon – early birthday present from Mawre & Paw Paw Clyde

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Long Time No Post

Can’t believe it’s been almost 4 months since my last post…sorry for the long wait.  I am going to try my best to post regularly.  Here’s a quick photo review of what’s been happening the past several months.

December 2011

Last December Noah flies for the first time to meet his grandparents. Noah turns 6 months

 

Noah and Paw Paw Clyde ("Yeh Yeh")

Noah and Mawre ("Ma-Ma")

Holiday family photo (missing Kona)

January 2012

Happy Chinese New Year! Noah turn 7 months

 

Noah, Gong Gong & Po Po waiting for table for dim sum

Noah & Me

Kona enjoying the day at Ocean Beach

February 2012

Noah starts to crawl

Noah's First Valentine's Day

Noah turns 8 months, I turn 34 years (that's 408 months...wow!)

Jon going crazy

Kona being a test subject for our new camera

March & April pics in the next post…

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Noah Meets Cayden

I may or may not have mentioned but a lot of our friends had their first baby around the same time Jon and I had Noah. One of them is our good friends Wen & Grace. They used to live in San Francisco but moved several years ago back to Singapore where Grace’s family lives. They had their son Cayden about 2 weeks after Noah was born. So far we’ve only been able to see pictures from Facebook or read each other’s blog or emailing to keep up with what was going on and all the parenting adventures we were all having. All of us were looking forward to the day our boys can meet and were so happy to find out that they would be visiting for a few days in December.

When Noah and Cayden met, it was like they instantly bonded. When we sat them side by side on the couch, the first thing Noah did was “pet” Cayden. Noah kept petting Cayden on this head – like he was thinking “Wow Hair!!” (haha). Cayden was smiling too.

It was a very short trip for them here in SF since the main reason for their trip was for them to go to Colorado to spend the holidays with Wen’s parents but it was great to see them. We’re not sure how long it would be until the next time but luckily for email and Facebook we’re able to keep in touch.

Here are a few pictures from their visit:

"Is that what hair feels like???"

 

Grace & Noah

Me & Cayden

 

Moms & The Boys

 

Dads & The Boys

 

Cayden is holding Noah's hand (He did that on his own)

 

Auntie Bala & Uncle Sam with Noah & Cayden

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Magazine Photo Shoot

A few weeks after I went back to work, I was talking to Robert, the art director for the crafting titles and he mention that he hasn’t seen a picture of Noah. Robert and I worked together when we were printing the Pregnancy magazine a while back but unfortunately they closed the magazine down but luckily Robert was one of few who got to stay and now works on our crafty magazines. Anyway so I busted out my iPhone to show him the hundreds of pictures. After telling me how cute Noah is, he said they are always photographing babies for the craft magazines and asked if I would be interested in having Noah in the magazines next time an opportunity came up. Of course I said sure!

So a few weeks ago, Robert came by with a crocheted baseball cap and asked if we would like to be in the upcoming issue. He gave me the baseball cap to take home to try it on to make sure it fits and for me to take a picture and send it back to him. When Jon got home with Noah and I told him about the possible photo shoot, he was so excited and got Noah all dressed up so we can take some pictures. I wasn’t really sure if the baseball cap fit or not, it covered his ears and it seemed like there was some “space” on the top but overall he looked pretty cute!

Here are a few pictures we took – sorry the only “baseball” themed clothes we had was a NY Yankees one piece – we are SF Giant’s fans – we swear!! But recently I found another baseball item with no team logo – oh well.

So I sent the pictures to Robert and he liked them and said he’ll send me the details about the shoot.

The shoot was on a Thursday morning at my work so I decided to take half day off since I would need to take Noah to daycare afterwards. The photo shoot was to start around 10:30 which was around Noah’s nap time so I was afraid he would be sleepy, thus fussy, during the shoot. I ended up taking Noah to work a little earlier so that we could say hi to my colleagues beforehand. Luckily once we got in the car, he fell asleep which I was really surprised by since it only takes me about 5 minutes to get to work! Unfortunately as we got closer to the shooting time, he was still asleep so I had to wake him up so that I could feed him. He didn’t get fussy but was his usual smiley self as we took the tour to say hi to everyone.

When we went up to the studio for the shoot, they were still setting up and they actually had a cute little outfit for Noah which matched the hat much better than the Yankees piece. Yay! I was happy about that. It was a little loose on him but overall not a bad fit. (No I didn’t get to keep the hat or outfit). They also bought a baseball for him to play with as well. Noah did very well on the photo shoot, he did not fuss at all (until after the shoot because he was sleepy). They asked if he was able to sit up and I said yes, but he would still fall over or back some times so they decided to shoot him lying down first and then they’ll get some shots of him sitting up. By the time they wanted to take some pictures of him sitting up, Robert said they “got the shot” already so we just took some pictures of Noah and me.

I would have loved to take some pictures of the photo shoot itself but wanted to make sure Noah was okay and wanted to help the photographer out by making Noah smile. The photographer and everyone there were saying how cute Noah was in his outfit and hat and what a good job he did. Robert was telling me last time how the babies they photographed before would start crying once they put the crocheted or knitted item on them. Wonder if they find it itchy?? Noah is not a big fan of hats too, he kept pulling on the hat in the beginning but I think he got used to it after a while.

I think overall Noah enjoyed the photo shoot (heck, he got to be with Mommy for half the day). It was also a fun experience for me as well. Can’t wait for the issue (Crochet Today! March/April) to come out to see which picture they chose. In the mean time here are a few pictures from the shoot.

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Rice Cereal and Vomiting!!

As I’ve mentioned in my previous posts, we started Noah on rice cereal. We have been just adding a tablespoon to his milk and feeding from a bottle which he was fine with in the beginning but for the last few times we’ve done it, we’ve noticed that about 2 hours later, he would vomit it all back out. The first time I thought it was because we gave him more cereal than we normally would plus he was still feeling sick. It was really bad and messy! We both felt awful and it’s so heart breaking watching him vomit and then cry. That night we had to change him twice – after I got him cleaned up, he vomited again! Poor guy.

Now that he’s feeling better, I tried to feed him again but this time he didn’t finish his bottle so I ended up feeding a little from the bottle with a spoon and the same thing happened, he was asleep then next thing we know he’s crying and when we went to check on him, he has vomited all over himself and the bed. This time my mom was there too and she blamed me (of course!) for feeding him so much right before bed. I already felt awful! But my little Noah is a trooper, this time he didn’t cry as much and even smiled when he saw us.

My thought afterwards was maybe he’s allergic to rice cereal so I went online to see if I could find anything. Apparently there are a lot of forums where parents were discussing this exact issue – some even mention it was Gerber’s (which was what we were feeding Noah too) but when they switched brands, their babies were fine. It always nice to know that other mothers are experiencing the same things as you are, even though baby vomiting isn’t the best “feel good” topic but it makes you feel like you are not alone.

I also emailed Noah’s pediatrician and she responded that it would be unusual to be allergic to rice cereal since it’s a carbohydrate and that maybe Noah’s having a adverse reaction to the additives in the rice cereal, such as iron but the vitamins I give him contain added iron so I don’t think it’s that. Dr. Dong also sent me a link for reference on white rice cereal by Dr. Greene who says NOT to feed white rice cereal to babies as their first bite of food. He says that “it’s processed white flour with added iron. It’s a refined carb babies don’t need, and there are better ways for baby to get iron than by adding it to junk food”

Even before reading what Dr. Greene had to say, I decided to just skip the rice cereal and start Noah on veggies and fruits since it’s more nutritious. I found a good website that has suggestions for solid food based on age as well as how to store and puree them. It’s called Wholesome Baby Food. I’ll keep you updated on how it goes.

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5 Months Old

Noah turned 5 months old on Wednesday!  Poor little guy has another cold. This one seems worse than the first one but luckily he has no fever…just a lot of snot! Being so congested he’s unable to sleep well. The last couple of days he has waking up every two or sometimes even every hour, needless to say, not so fun for mommy & daddy either. Last night he only woke up once during the middle of the night so hopefully that means he’s getting better. We’ve been sucking the snot out (gross, sorry), giving him saline drops and rubbing baby vapor rub on him to make him feel better. On the bright side, he’s still smiling!

Ok, here’s what he’s doing now:

Loves sitting up/being upright – Noah can almost sit up on his own now. He can actually sit for several seconds on his own before he slowly starts to fall over. Whenever we are at Fort Funston taking Kona for a walk, he’s usually asleep by the time we get there but when he wakes up, he starts to fuss so we take him out and Jon puts him in the carrier and he’s happy again. He just takes it all in – all the dogs and trees, seems to like trees and leaves a lot.

Reaching for objects – Noah is definitely exploring everything around him. He wants to grab anything and everything he can and of course put it straight into his mouth. When he’s on my lap and I’m hold my phone, he’s wanting to grab it or when I’m reading him a book, he wants to be the one holding it. My mom keeps telling us to be careful if we’re holding him and drinking something hot because he’s going to be reaching out for that too. When I’m changing him, he seems to want to grab on to my sleeves or the towel we use to cover him up in case he decides to spring a little surprise on us – this makes changing him more time consuming so I just give him a clean diaper for him to hold and explore while I quickly change him. I’ve also noticed that when he’s in the swing now, he has started to reach up and try to grab the mobile animals that are rotating above, he’s was able to touch and swat them which is pretty good considering they are moving and he’s swing side to side himself. Plus I think it’s still a little too high for him to grab.

Starting to show excitement – I’ve read online that around 5 months that a baby will start to show excitement and I’ve noticed that when Noah sees me or Jon, he’ll have a big smile on his face and he’ll start to fling his arms and hands slightly. He seems to do that too when he sees him bottle.

Rice cereal – we just started mixing some rice cereal with his milk for his last feeding of the night so that it will keep him full through the night so hopefully he will sleep through the night. He doesn’t seem to notice much difference but he seems to be sleep well, still waking up once in the middle of the night sometimes which is ok by me since he’ll go right back to sleep once we give him his pacifier. He is waking up earlier about 5 or 6ish because of the time change but most of the time he will go back to sleep for a little bit or he’ll be able to play by himself in his crib and would eventually fall back asleep. Last weekend we were able to all sleep in until about 8:30 am! We will be attempting to feed him rice cereal from a bowl this weekend, depending on how he feels. Will let you know how that turns out.

Smiles at Kona – whenever Noah sees Kona, he just stares and smiles at her. It’s pretty cool to watch him watch her and his eyes following her where she goes. When we took our first family picture below, Noah actually reached out and grabbed Kona’s ears. It was so cute! Too bad we weren’t able to snap that picture in time before he let go.

Here a few things I hope Noah can do in the coming months:

Roll over – since he doesn’t like tummy time, it will probably take longer for him to learn to roll over.

Recognize his name – I’ve been saying Noah a lot to him, hopefully he will start to recognize his name soon.

Sit up on his own – right now he can sit up pretty well with support and maybe 30 seconds without any support.

Here are some random pics:

At Kohl's play with a "lap top" with daddy

 

at Ikea

 

Family pic

 
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